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Support for every stage of life

Whether you’re navigating anxiety, parenting challenges, relationship struggles, trauma, or a major life transition, you don’t have to face it alone. Together, we’ll create a compassionate, collaborative space where you feel heard, understood, and supported. Every person and every story is unique, which is why counselling is tailored to your individual goals, experiences, and strengths.

COUNSELLING SERVICES

How I Can Support You

Individual Counselling

I take an experienced and respectful, client-centered approach to Individual Counselling.
Individual Counselling may take a blend of approaches related to particular client needs, such as: Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy; Psycho-dynamic Therapy; Grief and Loss; Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy; Dialectical Behavioral Therapy; Solutions-Focused Therapy; Trauma-informed approaches; and more. Counselling can be a flexible process in working towards goals you have set, and at other times it can be a check-in or self-care tool to work with what is happening in that particular moment or week.

Parenting & Family Support

Family therapy offers families the opportunity to expand and grow, focusing on strengths, values, and challenges.

Family therapy involves looking at family roles, dynamics, parenting approaches and strategies, communication patterns, boundaries, and ways in which the family members relate to each other and themselves. I take a strengths-based, non-judgmental approach to parenting and family counselling, working with blended families, parenting after separation, foster families, step-parenting, and step-coupling.

Child & Youth Counselling

Children and youth want to be seen, heard, and understood.

I work from a non-judgmental child and youth-led stance to create trust and rapport. This help to build the respectful relationship essential to therapeutic work. I connect with children and youth on their terms, valuing their wisdom and experience, while adding therapeutic insights to whatever they may be struggling with. I use child and youth-informed, evidence-based psychoeducational, play therapeutic, and cognitive-behavioral therapies, among others.

Couples & Relationship Counselling

I am experienced and trained in the Gottman Method Couples Therapy and take a respectful, collaborative approach.

I include a blend of emotionally-focused, response-based counselling approaches, tailored to the particular needs of the relationship. I believe that it is important to create an environment of respect, and compassion, as well as to address the vulnerabilities that may come with accessing marital/relationship therapy. We respectfully work through the challenges, as well as focus on the resilience and strengths of the partnership. We work as a team from an informed-consent approach to create the safety needed to grow and expand, becoming more attuned to each other as a couple.

Trauma, Anxiety & Mental Health

Past experiences, anxiety, stress, and emotional overwhelm can affect every part of life, including relationships, work, parenting, and your overall sense of wellbeing. Together, we'll create a safe, supportive space to better understand what's happening beneath the surface, develop practical coping strategies, and gently work toward healing, resilience, and lasting change at a pace that feels right for you.

Neurodiversity Support

I enjoy supporting children, teens, adults, and families navigating ADHD, Autism, and other neurodivergent experiences. My approach is neurodiversity-affirming, recognizing that every brain works differently. Together, we'll build greater understanding, self-compassion, and practical strategies that honour your strengths while supporting everyday challenges at home, school, work, and in relationships.

LGBTQIA2S+ Affirming Support

I provide respectful and informed counselling for LGBTQIA2S+ communities creating a safe, accepting, and non-judgmental environment. It is important to respect and to be able to explore sexuality, identity, genders and gender orientation from an affirmative perspective. I offer counselling for LGBTQIA2S+ families, parents, queer advocacy and support, children, youth and adults.

Secure Online Counselling

I use a secure Zoom Professional account for video sessions, as well as a telephone call or text option. Online counselling can provide flexibility and options for people to access counselling services more easily.

I offer a free 20-minute consultation where I can answer any questions you may have and we can discuss whether working together feels like the right fit. 

What Happens in our First Session 

We’ll talk about what brought you here.
You’ll have space to share as much or as little as feels comfortable.
We’ll discuss your goals.
Together we’ll decide what moving forward looks like.
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MY APPROACH

Evidence-Informed Care, Tailored to You

Every person arrives with a unique story, which is why there is no single approach to counselling. Rather than following one method, I thoughtfully integrate a variety of evidence-based therapeutic approaches to meet your individual needs, goals, and experiences. Together, we'll discover what feels most supportive, helping you build insight, resilience, and meaningful, lasting change.

EMDR

Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing

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Helps process traumatic memories and reduce the emotional impact of distressing experiences, allowing healing without reliving the past.

Gottman Method

Couples Therapy

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Research-based strategies that strengthen communication, rebuild trust, deepen connection, and help couples navigate conflict more effectively.

Trauma-Informed Therapy

A compassionate approach that recognizes the lasting effects of trauma while creating emotional safety, choice, and empowerment throughout the counselling process.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

Develop practical tools to recognize unhelpful thought patterns, manage emotions, and create healthier ways of responding to life's challenges.

Mindfulness-Based Therapy

Learn to become more present with your thoughts and emotions while developing greater self-awareness, calm, and emotional regulation.

Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)

Build skills for managing overwhelming emotions, improving relationships, increasing resilience, and responding more effectively to stress.

Narrative Therapy

Explore the stories you tell about yourself, separate yourself from problems, and discover strengths that support new possibilities for growth.

Family Systems Therapy

Understand relationship dynamics within families and strengthen communication, connection, and mutual understanding.

Response-Based Practice

Recognizes the strength and dignity people demonstrate when responding to adversity while shifting away from blame and shame.

Child-Centred Play Therapy

A developmentally appropriate approach that helps children express emotions, build confidence, and process difficult experiences through play and creativity.

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Strengthens emotional bonds by helping individuals and couples better understand their emotions and create healthier patterns of connection.

Culturally Responsive Practice

Counselling that honours each person's unique identity, culture, lived experience, and values while creating an inclusive and respectful therapeutic relationship.

LGBTQ+ Affirming Care

An inclusive, welcoming, and respectful space where individuals can explore life's challenges, relationships, identity, and wellbeing without judgment.

Additional Areas of Training:

  • San'yas Indigenous Cultural Safety Training

  • Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT Tapping)

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Finding the Right Support Starts with a Conversation

Whether you're seeking support for yourself, your child, your relationship, or your family, the first step is simply reaching out. I invite you to book a complimentary 20-minute consultation where we can talk about what's bringing you here, answer your questions, and explore whether we're a good fit.

Arukah Counselling and Wellness

We respectfully acknowledge that we live and work on the unceded territories of the Quw’utsun (Cowichan Tribes) and neighbouring Hul’qumi’num Treaty Group Nations.

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Services

Parenting & Family Support

Child & Youth Counselling

Couples & Relationship Counselling

Trauma, Anxiety & Mental Health

Neurodiversity Support

LGBTQIA2S+ Support

arukahcounselling@gmail.com
Tel. (250) 710-2264

The Cowichan Merchants Building
80 Station Street Suite 305A
Duncan, BC

Direct Billing Available Through

Blue Cross Billing

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